There's a saying that states, we are all mirrors for each other. And in the world of relationships, you have close intimate relationship with someone else. That means that they're going to reflect back to what's going on inside of you. Another way to say it is that we are all an accumulation of everyone we've ever loved or hated, because they've recreated a reaction or response and they formed us into the people that we are today. So all of those people that we've loved or hated, we carry little bits and pieces of them around inside of us, that includes the good, the bad, and the not so good. And intimate one on one relationships, because they are so close, are the truest mirrors to our inner soul.
And this brings us to the spiritual law of attraction which simply states like attracts like. So we To draw someone to your life, they're going to be reflection of some of your greatest strengths, but also your greatest weaknesses. So if you happen to be the greatest lover in the world, first, let's say, then you're going to you may attract into your life, the greatest lover in the world also. However, if you have issues with finances, let's say, you may pull someone into your life who's going to help you explode those issues around finances. So another way to say it, is to find the perfect mate, you must be the perfect mate. And so this takes us one step further into our little talk today and is that those close one on one intimate relationships are can create incredible opportunities for healing.
So as I mentioned in our last lecture, after the love wears off in a romantic love affair, and you get down into the business of being a couple, what happens at some point sooner or later, you're going to start to push each other's buttons, you're going to create scenarios where your insecurities, your anger, your fear, Whatever is going to come up in the context of arguments or whatever day to day living. And most people are not aware that when those issues come up, they are created from your past, and they live inside of you. And they were there long before the relationship started. And so the other person is just a prop in your one person play to help you experience what's going on inside of you. And so when those issues come up, it's a perfect time to do healing. And one great way to do healing is like in the meditations that are part of this course.
So you go deep into a relaxed state, you find where those suppressed emotions are, and then you release them and and when those are released and healed, then, then those issues don't come up anymore in your relationship and those repeating patterns that they create, stop. So let me kind of summarize again, we're all mirrors for each other people that we interact closely with this are just bringing up what exists in us already, that like attracts like you're gonna attract people into your life who reflect your greatest strengths, your greatest weaknesses. And then when issues do come up in your relationship, it's a great opportunity for healing. It takes a little awareness. But it's a, it's a great time to let those things go and to stop the cycle of the repeating patterns of pain and to be free of those emotions from the past that allows you to be intimate in the relationship that you're in.
Okay, so that's enough for this one. I'll see you at the next lecture. Thanks.