Now let's take a look at what a more intimate or evolved relationship might look like. So let's say the same scenario exists, there's an argument about the house being messy, the other person might even take off the exact same circumstances are present there. However, when the argument is over, the more intimate couple will take responsibility for their own situation. So the person that got angry might say something like this, hey, you know, I got really angry the other day. You know, it's really inappropriate, you know, there's something going on inside of me, it's probably from my childhood, so I need to take a look that I'm going to get some healing work done this week. And the other person might say something similar.

It's like yeah, it's okay. You know, I got defensive This is like, reminds me of my dad when he used to attack me. So, you know, I'm gonna get some healer done too and do a little meditation see what I can do. So what happens in that scenario is a both people are Taking responsibility for their emotional situation. And both of them are going to go do their healing work, they can do it together or they can do it separately. But when they go and deeply like in in a meditative state or in a healing session, release those events from the past, those arguments and stuff will stop coming up in the repeating patterns of the blame and defend rituals stop.

And in the end, what will happen is that the two people that are involved, each other will actually come closer together. So this is really the work of like soulmates or twin flames. It's not easy, because you have to take responsibility for your own situation. So that's it for the section on intimate and loving relationships. Let's move on to the meditation and learn how to heal ourselves so we can be more available to to true intimacy. So I'll see you there