BONUS VIDEO - breaking up with your partner

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Transcript

Hi, Jenny. Hello. So thank you for being here, I really wanted to have this discussion with you. It's something quite important that I will tell you, because I'm here because I would like to inform you that we are going to break up, I've made the decision to separate from you. And the reasons why I want to separate is very personal. And I've been reflecting about this for a long time.

And I know that it must be quite emotional for you. The reasons are mainly because, you know, I've assessed my contribution in the couple and I've assessed if I'm ready or not to invest into a relationship, and I realized that at the moment, I am not ready for that. I am not ready and willing to share either space or time with another person. And as much as I fully appreciate it all the moments we have together. It is time for me to spend some time on my own. And I know that it has an impact for you.

And I fully respect that. So my question for you is, how can we go about breaking up in a way that will be the easiest for you? Well, that is painful. It's painful. Yes. I mean, you said that, like, you don't have emotion, and just what I should about your decision.

I mean, is I didn't expect this. So understand that yes, I'm sure. And, you know, it's really driven by a lot of facts that I have put together on my own and through reflection, reflection on myself and, and I, I want to take this decision for us because I really feel like I'm not ready. And it's not something that came after a day. I've been reflecting about this for several weeks, and he didn't tell me I mean, you even didn't talk with me. So we had a chat in several occasions where I expressed to you how I was feeling and that I started to have doubts and that I was unsure about how ready I was to be in a committed relationship.

So really, this is more now the time for me to say, I am sure about my decision. And I know that it's not going to be something so easy. So really, the question is, how do you want to do to make this breakup? as simple and as little difficult and painful, painful as it can be for you. Now you want an insert now, it would be great if we have at least an idea of how we progress from right now. What would you like to do to make it easier for you so Russia, like you don't love me anymore?

As I said, I think the fact is simply that I'm willing to break this relationship and and that it is it is ending. So it would really help me and I'm really doing this. So that for the both of us, we move forward. So really in terms of next step, you know, how would you prefer that we go about this? Are you asking me this? Last now, are you completely lost or at least Do you understand?

I what we are talking about and I understand that you want to break up with me. I understand is because you are not ready. Because you can't commit to stay with me and share by this. I heard this or think I understand but I'm feeling not ready to. To break up. Okay, no.

I respect that. I'm not fully ready. Yes, it's just sudden, like, I feel like even I can't do anything. I'm like, that's it. You can read this. You just give me I rip up.

Yes. And I need to accept this. Yes. So how could we suit what what would you prefer to do now, now that you know this perfectly prefer to stop? I mean, I don't want to stay with someone who are not ready to, to leave the same thing than me. I mean, I want to have children I want to be married.

And you just tell me you're not ready to commit this. So, okay. It helps me expand For I don't know, I wouldn't like to change this, but you are You look so sure that and it's because I believe in this situation. It's important to make a decision. Yeah. So I really had a lot of thoughts and it brought me to this decision.

And now, I think the best I can do for the both of us is that I am clear on what I want, and that I am open and honest with you because I wouldn't want to have tell us it's true for make this last for a long time. I think it's better for the both of us. That's really why I'm asking, you know, if there's anything you would prefer we do in order to make the separation. More or less painful for you. I'm ready to do this. You're saying you prefer to stop.

Okay. And how would you like us to separate Thinking of latter thing I mean, we need to say to our friends our family and how would you prefer to do that together or would you prefer to inform them separately? I'm not ready yet to say together. I mean I think I prefer to put you out of my life okay, completely. Okay. I don't want to stay in contact with you because it's too painful maybe later but I'm not sure because I invest myself so much in our relationship.

Sorry, I think is best is you live is a flat and and yes, we find a solution as soon as possible. Okay. Okay, I respect that. So in terms of the next steps, if we can call it this way, it would be that you We'll inform your friends and the family on your own and that you need some time without me to to accept that and and that I will leave the flat as soon as possible. Okay. Thank you.

I know it's a discussion. So thank you very much

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