Okay, so you've seen that wide for you act of services, cream chores for the other person. It's a valid way of showing love. Why not try to see things from their perspective and do something different for a change. Even if acts of service isn't your loved ones primary language. Remember that diversity and openness are key ingredients for lasting relationship. For one whole week, try out a different way of showing affection by doing these simple yet very effective gestures.
Take a piece of paper and write down five situations in which you've done something for the other person, like taking out the trash or doing the dishes. Put a tick if the other person noticed the change. You can do this electronically in a word editor on your phone, for example, every two days or so as if there is anything you would help with. After a whole week, count the ticks and see if there's been an improvement during your things is always a challenge and may be tricky at the beginning. But remember that even Rome wasn't built in a day. If you're willing to openly discuss and work on your relationship with your partner, then there isn't an obstacle you want surpass people who love are the most surprising