Every relationship has its ups and downs, and divorced couple manages to sort out the real problem, then the dynamic of it changes for the better, creating an even stronger bond between the partners. Unfortunately, many couples break up because they think there is no have left. And that is what the Five Love Languages aim to solve. Do you agree with the saying birds of a feather flock together applied to our topic, it would mean that only people who share the same love language make a happy couple, which is in fact, false. A happy couple is one in which both partners have learned to give and receive affection based on clear knowledge of each other's needs. As a result, you need to speak the same tongue.
Just learn the dialect. How to do that. For starters, listen carefully to your lover or spouses. criticism, even if it's difficult at first, then look past the anger and focus on the message it's actually conveying does it say you always leave dirty dishes in the sink? If so, this shows that your loved one is most likely an act of service person, you never have time for me. This type of common shelter suffering of a lack of quality time.
If your partner gets to the point of shouting it out, it means they are already in emotional pain. The constructive question here is what can I do to improve the situation? Of course, the five love languages are not the holy grail, and consequently one fix any and every issue or relationship faces romantical or not. What it does instead is provide a very solid foundation to build upon the principles of the love languages go to the core of the emotional needs. Every couple has. If that needs is matte, you're more likely to be able to deal with the other issues in the marriage.
Gary Chapman said, and I, for one, have found it to be true. I invite you to use the ideas presented to you in this course, as a means to improve the way you interact with cherished people in your life.