Here's the first thing I want you to do when preparing the eulogy for a lost loved one. I want you to just isolate one sentence or less. What is the one thing that was best about this person? Was it their compassion? Was it their humor, their selflessness, they're intelligent, everybody has some strength. And rather than try to cover every single thing this person ever did that was wonderful.

Or say that they were great at everything. I want you to really isolate the one quality that made this person special to you and to a lot of other people in the room. Let's focus on that. That's your first piece of homework.