We don't receive wisdom, we must discover for ourselves after a journey that nobody can take us on. And nobody can spare us. A quote from gentlemen in Las Vegas. You're either winning or you're learning. There's no such thing as losing. You're either winning or you're learning.

So experience is the greatest teacher and what Marcel Proust was saying and this and it's interesting to me because he was sad. He, he was ill. And then he wrote a search the talk was, so he like, reconstructed his entire mental life but what it's 1200 pages in the most eloquent beautiful, poignant language possible and he reconstructed you know, While he was sick and bad, unwell his entire childhood, you know, obviously subjective fashion, but it became one of the greatest pieces of literature, you know, in western civilization. And this particular quote about, we all have to update it by saying, you know, work out the karma that work individually working out, and then we shouldn't compare ourselves with other people because they have different cars and you never know at what point in time, at what point in time, like you're going to be struck down.

You know, your karma is like, okay, today's the day you get hit by a car, sorry, you know, so, I think it's about not comparing yourself with others because we all have to go through our own experiences and go on our own healing journeys.