The concept of world creation, a loving person lives in a loving world. A hostile person lives in a hostile world. everyone you meet is your mirror can keys. In reality, the concept of world creation is similar to what happens when you keep telling yourself something. For example, my life sucks. My life sucks.

My life sucks. And as a result, you only notice the sucky things that happen to you. I guess sucky isn't exactly the most didactic world, but they kind of like the ring of it. So you create the world The way you make yourself believe it is, for instance, a manipulative person will use his innate defense mechanism and project his vision of the world. The fact that others are manipulators and that you have to be one in order to survive. manipulative person will think that if another person has the chance that person will manipulate.

In other words, other people see the world in the same way. This person considers that others think that one must manipulate others that you either manipulate or are manipulated. automatically. This person too feels good when manipulating. What is the situation here? The manipulator thinking in this way cannot behave as a trustworthy person.

The manipulator will try to manipulate and not offered trust. As a result, the manipulator will always be the person who lacks trust, because the manipulator expects others to be competitive to only care for their own interests. That's why the manipulator will attack. First, what happens? The world that this person imagines in which everyone is a manipulator will reflect his own image. Seeing that he is a manipulator, others will behave similarly towards him.

Now, let me give you another example. Let's take someone who is full of confidence and shows vulnerability, expresses his emotions. Others will find it easy to trust such a person. When he meets someone who's trying to take advantage of him, he will try to exclude that person from his life. As a result, he'll be living in a world in which he has good friends, and every now and then someone's trying to take advantage of him. Another example is that of a person who is a good manipulator.

As a result, this person we live in a world full of manipulators and of manipulated people. If not manipulating This person will be manipulated by others. Let's say man thinks of himself as socially inept and cannot be friend members of the opposite sex. As a result, he no longer cares for his look has lost confidence. His body language doesn't show confidence and notices the negative impact of everything he says. What happens then, the people he interacts with will quickly become aware of this and will avoid him.

Because he considers himself socially inept, he will create a world in which he is inept. Another example is of a person who is overconfident and expect all those who interacts with to like him. Those who dislike him will automatically be avoided, he will have many great social interactions in which he will be pleasant in the eyes of those who he interacts with. When I was younger, I used to play basketball with a group of neighborhood bullies. I always witnessed fights and bullying and they thought they should become better friends with them in order to avoid any such situations and be protected. The interesting part is that after I stopped hanging out with them, and focused on studying for my high school and college exams, there was no more fighting.

The fighting only occurred in that world that I had created in which I maintained my relationship with them. At the time, I thought I needed them for my protection. No, it was because I hung out with them, that I was confronted with problems and needed their protection. The solution was to create a new world in which I no longer needed these things. The concept of world creation refers precisely to this. When you only see the bad things that happen around you.

They will keep happening. If you only see the good things, good things will happen to you. This is a very efficient way to improve your life. Just create the world you want to live in. You can temporarily adapt your personality type. What does this mean?

There are eight fun Actions through which we experience this life. Even though we only have four preferences, we can for short periods of time, use the other four preferences. The best example is at work, where people have to offer concise information, even though they're intuitive. Another example is that of the introvert speakers who have to socialize after an event. They are not extroverts. It doesn't come naturally to them.

But they're that we can easily adapt, and we can change our personality type. We can behave according to necessity. You must also avoid limiting your options. When you say you're an ENFP. And that you do what you do because you're an ENFP. You're limiting your options.

What does this mean? It means that you're using your type as an excuse to not behave, how you've been asked to how you wish to or how others expect you to If you want to change your behavior don't limit your options. Don't say that you do certain things because of your personality type. To improve your type. The best thing you can do, as in the Toastmasters story, is to step into hell and learn to deal with it. To have experiences opposite to your personality type in order to develop a rarely use preference homework for the next four days each day.

Choose one of your preferences and experiment with the opposite type. If your is the G on Monday, behave like an extrovert on Tuesday, listen to your intuition. On Wednesday. feel the emotion around you. On first day, don't make choices. Don't judge gather information each day, think about what happened during that day.

How did you feel? How did he go? And would you try it again. I'm only asking you to experience this experiment. With the opposite preference and see what happens. If you'd like to develop it, then go through hell use it extensively and you'll see that it'll get better and better over time.

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