Alright, so in this video, I'm going to share with you how to create instant confidence. Now, this is a powerful, powerful technique here that I'm going to share with you, that's going to take your confidence to the next level. And I'm very, very excited to share this with you here. So let's go right ahead and jump in here. So what I want you to do is I want you to think about having self confidence within a given context. Okay?

So think about for example, I am confident talking to strangers or I'm confident talking to the opposite sex right? Now stop and don't continue to think about it. Okay? Because you've thought about, I'm confident talking to strangers. now. Stop that, right.

Stop thinking about that. clear your mind. And then imagine that confidence being a ball of energy like a proton, like it's outside of you, okay? Like it's this external thing, okay? So instead of thinking about that confidence of talking to strangers, step into that ball of confidence, energy and begin to think from that point of view and not about it. So don't think about you having self confidence talking to strangers, think about that ball being the confidence of talking to strangers, right, that interview ball, and then step into that.

And then start now to think from that point of view, you being that energy, okay? And not thinking about it. Because when you do this, you no longer think about it as an external force. Instead, you think from it from actually being it's right from being inside of it, and then you become that force. And you look at things directly from that point of view. Now, imagine that a close friend is complimenting you on that confident quality.

So they noticed that about you, right? And obviously, they don't see that you have this energy ball that you've stepped into, but they're complimenting you on that confident quality that you have. So here in Cedar I'm complimenting you. And notice how great that feels, okay? Now imagine going to work and having your co workers or maybe you're a business owner, imagine going into your business and your co workers or your employees noticing this confidence about you. Now think of someone in your past and see them noticing and seeing this quality that you have and then being curious as to how you accomplish getting that confidence, right?

And then sitting there just wondering Hmm, I wonder how this person got this confidence, right? I wonder how you know, they got that what they had to go through right picture this as vividly as possible. Now see yourself walking out in the grocery store and see strangers that are noticing that confident quality in you as soon as they see you. Right. So as soon as they walk by you, they almost do a double take and they look at you and they're just like, you know, in complete all their you know, curious and they're just you know, noticing this about you Right. So notice how they react to you.

Now I want you to think about someone that you admire, okay? It can be a mentor, it can be an idol, maybe a role model, whoever that means be someone that you admire, okay? Have them see that confident quality in you, and then notice them admiring you about it, okay? They don't say it. They don't you don't tell you anything. But you can see it in their eyes, that they're proud of you.

They're proud of what you've accomplished and how confident you become. Okay? Now think about a superhero that you'd like, imagine that you're friends with them, and you're walking together, okay, you're walking down this path. And then that superhero friend sees that quality in you and is proud to walk with you because of that competent quality that you possess. Now, imagine five years from now and this quality has been with you for those five years. And people know you for having this confident quality, right?

It's just the type of individual that you are right. You're a confident individual. You have this quality about you. And notice how great your life is, because you have this quality. Take a moment and look at that. Now to really benefit from this, I recommend that you do this at least daily because it's about visualizing and seeing and creating your future in your mind right?

Precisely and vividly with great detail as to how you want it to be. Because you are the creator of your reality. Notice how when you plan things out, and you say I'm going to do this, and then after this step, I'm going to do that. And then I'm going to do this and I'm going to, you know, do this over here. Notice how you're planning this out in your mind and you're maybe planning it out on paper, right in a spreadsheet, whatever that may be. You're creating that future reality, right?

And so when you can create that in your mind, and you can see that and you can see it vividly in your mind, then this is becoming who you are. This is your reality that you're creating. Right. So visualization is so important for you to be able to accomplish, really anything that you ever want to accomplish in your life. Because you can visualize it already happening in your mind, right, you're just now going to do the physical implementation of it, but you already know it. As far as it existing, it already exists in your mind, right?

So you know that it's already done in there, you just have to now put in the work to actually get it. So this is really the mechanics here to think or act as if you already have it's right. Because you're imagining your future, you're imagining already having it. So remember, you want to be able to use your mind, right. You don't want to be used by it. You don't want to have you know, all these negative things going on in your mind as far as these negative thought processes, and then fall into that trap.

Because at that point, you're being used by your mind you want to be able to use your mind because you have a choice to think certain things positive or negative, and if they are negative to be able to reframe those into positives, right. So Highly recommend that you utilize this technique on a daily basis or as much as you can because it's going to paint that picture for you as to exactly how much confidence you want to have, you know how confident you want to become right and it can be, you know, two to three years a year down the road. This is extremely powerful here. So that's going to be a here for this video and we'll see you on the next one.