Negative life patterns are really interesting to identify for a client or even for yourself. This, the negative life patterns I came up with about 10 years ago when I saw people with certain patterns and their patterns were also their sabotages. So that's why I created this list. And I found that the most common negative life patterns that people created were judgment, power and sacrifice. So, what the patterns means is that like if it comes up judgment means that Firstly, they will judge themselves harshly, then negative in their head, and they create situations that they feel judged by other people. Then this can also transfer and then judging others, and it usually stems from That person being judged as a child or bullied at school.

The more you work with these patterns, and the more you work with your clients, you start to see how they match. When you find an age, when you identify an age of when the stresses occur, you'll see this little pattern happening. So when you when you find the age or just see them feeling judged, or the pattern appearing, so they're really quite powerful. in forensic healing, we identified two, so we can see two of their major patterns. So these are things that are happening throughout their life and if they're changing them, that's really good because they need to move away from the negative life patterns. In the back of the guide in dependencies.

There is an expanded version of all the patents listed, so you'll be able to read more and see how they apply. There's also some extra information on on affirmations that you can also give for the client to say, power, I'll just give you a bit more information on perhaps another common negative life pattern, which is like power comes up. Power means the person gives away their power. And you'll find that that means that they're affected by what's happening on the news or what's happening with their neighbors angry, your relatives angry, they start to think, Oh, no, maybe it's me that their power goes and they don't stay centered. They're affected by all of these people around them, and people try to take their power away from them. And the reason why they'll find people trying to take their power away from them or get into situations where they feel disempowered, is to push them and to get them to change and say I've had enough I'm not doing this any longer.

And I'm not going to give my power away anymore. And sometimes it does get to that point sometimes with people don't change they gets pushed to a certain point where they say that they just blow up and they and they lose it. And they say enough is enough. And it forces them to change. So I always suggest to my clients, change these patterns, change it to two, you're forced into a pattern that's just too harsh to take or it's just yeah really tough to deal with, with change your patents so the universe isn't keep trying to make you change, or trying to get you to have a better life really, but it's the vibration in them of feeling that way. Then the tracks that situation to them.

So that's the negative life patterns and you will be choosing to and you will be writing the patents for the client to take home so that they can see how it's occurring in their life. And it gives them power in their life. It gives them something to work with after they've seen you after you've found the two negative life patterns. client, you then identify the emotion which will be a negative emotion that triggers these patterns. That means that when they feel a certain way they may start to to trigger their parents now give you an example let's look at the emotionless there's a choice of one to 17 one to maybe guilt when they start to feel guilty. And let's say their negative life pattern was giving away their power and judgment.

Perfect to when they start to feel guilty, they give their power away, and then they start to feel judged or they have the negative self talk, because that emotional guilt means that they they think that they've done something wrong. So the key will be the opposite is to feel the opposite the opposite to guiltiness listed in the in the guide against the emotion is Free of freedom. So I tell my clients, when you start to feel guilty, you need to be saying, I choose to feel free or thank you for reminding me to free myself. Now, these statements are written on the client handout that they get to take home after the session. So they can practice incorporating their affirmations to move them into change their pattern. So they just when someone goes, I'll tell them when they feeling like someone's taking their power away or they're feeling judged.

They need to change that emotion of the guilt that keeps them in that pattern and to feel free. They can say thanks for allowing me to free myself. I choose to free myself and it distracts them from the same old emotion that they've had. And it moves them in a different direction, and then things start to change for them. So the emotion is really important to start to change the patterns that they're creating. Do you have a choice of one to 17 Another common one will be unsuccessful.

Unsuccessful means not good enough when that comes up means not good enough. That's what I tell the client. So then they need to start feeling successful. They need to say choose to feel successful. And the other ones is resentment that's quite common. They all come up quite regularly.

But there's a few that do quite common for disempowered is another common one. People just go into feeling disempowered. So the emotion you find one emotion for them in their healing protocol, and that client will then know where to refocus after the healing session, their emotion to improve the patterns that they're creating. Now we're going to find our clients and negative life patterns, we're going to find two and this will mean a pattern that they keep creating in their life. It will be something that keeps coming to them time and time again. They'll see it through F They're live until they can see what's causing it.

So we're going to find two and then I'll give a bit more detail on what they are going to find to for Emily. So we'll bring them muscle up, I'm going to use a lot muscle soil make the commander like the muscle to be locked. I asked the client to maintain the muscle in that position and to breathe, I place my fingers above the wrist and apply pressure maintain the arm nice and firm. Now I will look at the negative life patterns, the negative life patterns and numbered one to 18. So I can just ask which number her negative life pattern is and then check the reference against the number. So I can begin with the armor holder and I can count one to 10 and the muscle changes so I know the negative life patterns is between one and 10 sort of maintain the armor asked for locked again want to find And it stays firm.

So I'm going to count up, hold six, seven, and it changes on seven. So I check which one seven represents and it's judgment. Judgment means that they have negative self talk, they're always judging themselves, they, they may beat themselves up about something they did, or saying that's not good enough, or I could have done that better. It's negative self talk. And this can often come from childhood, a parent that was perhaps judgmental towards them. And this can sometimes transfer to them judging others.

It's a very common negative life pattern, but making them aware that they're judging themself in their head and judging others will help them shift this pattern. Now let's find Emily's second pen, or bring the arm better. I command for a lot maintain it nice and strong. So study again, one to 10 and I get a change. So again, it's in one to 10. Whole, maintain the arm, one to five.

Now I'm going to count up 678. And the muscle changes as eight. Now I checked what's against eight and it's letting go. When letting go comes up, it means that this person is hanging on to something, they may hang on to people, they may hang on to beliefs. They need to release this, whatever it is to hang on there. They need to just let things go.

And so let's ask Emily about the two negative life patterns. We'll see if she creates them in her life or she can see a pattern of them making sense. Now, judgment Do you can you relate to judging yourself? Were you a perfectionist or something like that? Yep, very much so. Okay.

In which what what would you say to yourself that relates to judgment? You can do that better. I could do that better. Yeah, I could have done it better perfect. She's always judging yourself, which means that she's always saying what's not good enough. So that's a perfect example of judgment.

Now letting go hang on to something. So now does letting go and make any sense to you. I mean, you hang on to something. Is that something you've been trying to work out or? Yeah, pretty much. Some sort of belief in not letting.

I'm not quite sure what the you're trying to work it out yourself. Still. I yeah. Okay, so this process helped her workout. She's tried to analyze yourself, but we're going to really help her to see what it is that she's hanging on to. And when we get more information, we'll make it nice and clear for her