So when we talk about actually working with someone that isn't your friends and family, what is the kind of person that you really do need to work on and this is I'm going to give you an outline and structure of how to select this person. So what I want you to do is select someone called a divorce or breakup Angel. This should be someone who is probably not a close friend or family member, but someone you can discuss your divorce or breakup experience with. Your angel is your champion. It's the one who's going to walk alongside you in the darkness of the processing back into the light. If you feeling vulnerable or having anxieties, it's much best to work with a trained divorce Angel, or trained breakup Angel.

So for example, like in my team, we have really people that are specialized in that. So someone who's a therapist or coach or has that training, this is the base kind of person to have you walk through the journey with you. If you select someone who dislikes your former partner or has Some sort of agenda for you and your life. Each discussion could turn into a rant session or into them exacting their revenge or their agenda on you. Someone you know too well could also have too much empathy and this could impede your progress. So a divorce or breakup, angels should be someone that number one doesn't know you that well, they won't bind to any of your drama, they rise, they have it together.

They have healthy personal relationships themselves. They're not afraid to tell you the truth. They care about you being empowered, and they ensure that you are getting the best out of your experience. So make sure that you select the right person in your life and you don't just immediately select someone that is your default best mate or your default family friend. This is not necessarily going to be the person that's going to help you process this to make sure you stick to the criteria that we've given you in this video.