My Zombie Client

The Complete Storytelling Course for Speaking & Presenting TJ's Stories about Storytelling and Public Speaking
2 minutes
Share the link to this page
Copied
  Completed
You need to have access to the item to view this lesson.
One-time Fee
$99.99
List Price:  $139.99
You save:  $40
€95.03
List Price:  €133.05
You save:  €38.01
£79.15
List Price:  £110.82
You save:  £31.66
CA$139.67
List Price:  CA$195.55
You save:  CA$55.87
A$153.55
List Price:  A$214.98
You save:  A$61.42
S$134.39
List Price:  S$188.16
You save:  S$53.76
HK$778.22
List Price:  HK$1,089.54
You save:  HK$311.32
CHF 88.36
List Price:  CHF 123.71
You save:  CHF 35.34
NOK kr1,105.21
List Price:  NOK kr1,547.34
You save:  NOK kr442.12
DKK kr708.87
List Price:  DKK kr992.45
You save:  DKK kr283.57
NZ$170.45
List Price:  NZ$238.64
You save:  NZ$68.18
د.إ367.26
List Price:  د.إ514.18
You save:  د.إ146.92
৳11,959.01
List Price:  ৳16,743.10
You save:  ৳4,784.08
₹8,452.40
List Price:  ₹11,833.70
You save:  ₹3,381.29
RM446.45
List Price:  RM625.05
You save:  RM178.60
₦168,042.19
List Price:  ₦235,265.79
You save:  ₦67,223.60
₨27,819.88
List Price:  ₨38,948.94
You save:  ₨11,129.06
฿3,466.55
List Price:  ฿4,853.31
You save:  ฿1,386.76
₺3,454.83
List Price:  ₺4,836.90
You save:  ₺1,382.07
B$580.99
List Price:  B$813.41
You save:  B$232.42
R1,812.36
List Price:  R2,537.39
You save:  R725.02
Лв185.85
List Price:  Лв260.20
You save:  Лв74.35
₩140,106.88
List Price:  ₩196,155.24
You save:  ₩56,048.35
₪373.41
List Price:  ₪522.79
You save:  ₪149.38
₱5,905.80
List Price:  ₱8,268.36
You save:  ₱2,362.56
¥15,438.71
List Price:  ¥21,614.81
You save:  ¥6,176.10
MX$2,034.25
List Price:  MX$2,848.03
You save:  MX$813.78
QR364.93
List Price:  QR510.92
You save:  QR145.98
P1,367.12
List Price:  P1,914.02
You save:  P546.90
KSh12,923.70
List Price:  KSh18,093.70
You save:  KSh5,170
E£4,964.56
List Price:  E£6,950.58
You save:  E£1,986.02
ብር12,476.97
List Price:  ብር17,468.25
You save:  ብር4,991.28
Kz91,223.61
List Price:  Kz127,716.70
You save:  Kz36,493.09
CLP$97,372.26
List Price:  CLP$136,325.06
You save:  CLP$38,952.80
CN¥724.09
List Price:  CN¥1,013.76
You save:  CN¥289.66
RD$6,035.83
List Price:  RD$8,450.41
You save:  RD$2,414.57
DA13,357.64
List Price:  DA18,701.23
You save:  DA5,343.59
FJ$226.99
List Price:  FJ$317.80
You save:  FJ$90.80
Q772.55
List Price:  Q1,081.60
You save:  Q309.05
GY$20,937.04
List Price:  GY$29,312.70
You save:  GY$8,375.65
ISK kr13,828.61
List Price:  ISK kr19,360.61
You save:  ISK kr5,532
DH999.72
List Price:  DH1,399.66
You save:  DH399.93
L1,820.82
List Price:  L2,549.22
You save:  L728.40
ден5,848.08
List Price:  ден8,187.54
You save:  ден2,339.46
MOP$802.33
List Price:  MOP$1,123.29
You save:  MOP$320.96
N$1,815.10
List Price:  N$2,541.22
You save:  N$726.11
C$3,682.57
List Price:  C$5,155.75
You save:  C$1,473.17
रु13,507.81
List Price:  रु18,911.48
You save:  रु5,403.66
S/379.77
List Price:  S/531.69
You save:  S/151.92
K402.86
List Price:  K564.02
You save:  K161.16
SAR375.38
List Price:  SAR525.55
You save:  SAR150.16
ZK2,769.51
List Price:  ZK3,877.43
You save:  ZK1,107.91
L472.94
List Price:  L662.13
You save:  L189.19
Kč2,407.85
List Price:  Kč3,371.09
You save:  Kč963.24
Ft39,078.98
List Price:  Ft54,712.13
You save:  Ft15,633.15
SEK kr1,102.90
List Price:  SEK kr1,544.10
You save:  SEK kr441.20
ARS$100,263.16
List Price:  ARS$140,372.43
You save:  ARS$40,109.27
Bs693
List Price:  Bs970.23
You save:  Bs277.22
COP$441,313.30
List Price:  COP$617,856.28
You save:  COP$176,542.97
₡50,820.06
List Price:  ₡71,150.12
You save:  ₡20,330.05
L2,528.86
List Price:  L3,540.51
You save:  L1,011.64
₲783,733.33
List Price:  ₲1,097,258.01
You save:  ₲313,524.68
$U4,278.05
List Price:  $U5,989.44
You save:  $U1,711.39
zł413.19
List Price:  zł578.49
You save:  zł165.29
Already have an account? Log In

Transcript

What's the problem with using beta blockers if you're nervous about giving a presentation, beta blockers are drugs that they don't make you high or getti, like marijuana or alcohol or anything, but they do reduce your ability to get stressed, they do relax you. So at first blush, it seems like it might be a good idea to use them. I was in Chicago working with a well known mutual fund manager. We'll call her Sarah. She said, TJ, I'm very nervous about going on CNBC tomorrow. I think I'm going to take a beta blocker, I said, Please, don't.

We're gonna rehearse here again and again, until you like how you're coming across. And we did rehearse. We did make some progress, but she still decided to take the beta blocker. And this was more than 15 years ago, but he's still remember the image. It's so powerful. I saw her the next day on CNBC and she was like this Yes, I'd like to tell you about the success of our mutual fund and why our value investing is so successful.

She looked and sounded like a zombie. Very low energy, monotone, no movement in her body. So yeah, the drug worked. She was more relaxed. But it brought her performance level down to the point where she looked scared, uncomfortable, nervous, untrustworthy. Unbelievable.

Now, she's still very successful. Don't, don't feel sorry for but it just drove home for me, is basic principle, that it's not about you feeling comfortable. It's how you've come across to your audience and her case, hundreds of thousands of people were watching that. And that's really the lesson here. Everything you do getting ready for a presentation has to be about How it makes you come across your best to your audience, not just how you feel. Okay, so why do I tell that story?

I tell that story because I do believe that it's simply not a good idea for people to use beta blockers, just because they're nervous about giving a presentation. Now, if you're on them for other reasons, or you're on any other kind of drugs, and your doctors telling you, you have to be on them, don't listen to me. I'm not a doctor, and I'm not your psychiatrist. I'm talking about this specific situation where you don't normally use any drugs. And someone says, oh, take a beta blocker, you'll be relaxed before you give this big speech, or before you give this interview. To me.

That's a huge, huge danger sign. You're nervous, you're not going to come across your best. That means you need to practice more on video. Not take drugs.

Sign Up

Share

Share with friends, get 20% off
Invite your friends to LearnDesk learning marketplace. For each purchase they make, you get 20% off (upto $10) on your next purchase.