So now let's talk about your beliefs. So, your beliefs are really important because they will impact how you interact with people, they will impact your behavior, they will dictate how you will perceive the situation. But they will also say if you are confident or not. So what I would like you to do is to give you here, five of my beliefs and five of the beliefs that confident people have so that you can integrate them to your life. The first belief I would like to share with you here is on here I will be a big success. You must have faith that you will figure things out and that you will be able to accomplish what you want.

You must have this feeling that most people will say, Oh my god, Alan, you are not being realistic. Oh my god, Alan, you are failure. If everyone is against you. You must have this feeling inside you. Be a big success. No matter where you are in your situation right now, if you are broke, if you have a module problem, if you have something that is happening in your life, I would like you to never forget that you will become a big success.

Never Forget it. Never, never, never, ever, ever, ever, you will become a big success. How do you develop this mindset here? I would like you to always focus on the positive side and have faith. I would like you to visualize that you will be able to accomplish that the more you visualize that you are able to accomplish what you want, the more you will have this belief here that I will be a big success. The second one that I would like to share with you here is that everything that happens to me is part of the process.

Difficult moments, the setbacks, the pain, they are all up Because it's part of the process, you feel that something, oh, it's here, it's part of the process to get you gold. It's part of the process so that you can learn something. There's a problem right now. Or maybe it's part of the process so that you can become successful and get what you want. In my case, when I started my company, I had a lot of problems. I had people that were really crazy that came at me, and I had to deal with difficult situations.

And how I did that is that I always told myself, okay, it's part of the process, so that I can learn on how I can manage my company better on how I can do things better. I always had this feeling that everything that happens to me is part of the process. If your lover leaves you, maybe it happens because it's part of the process. Okay, maybe it's because you were not a great husband or wife, I don't know. But what I would like you to show you here is that I would like you to imagine that everything that happens to you In life, is for reason. And the reason is that it's here, because it's part of the process, the great things I hear, because it's part of the process, and the bad things are here.

So because it's part of the process, so that when you have something that happens to you say, okay, it's part of the process is a challenge, I accept it, and you improve it, and you take action. I can do it. I would like you to just feel the emotion and the power of I can do it. I would like you to when you are doubting and when you are second guessing yourself in any situation. If you say, Oh my god, I'm not good enough that I just stop it and you say, I can do it. You say I can do it.

And he raises all the beliefs that you have all the noise that you have in your head. If you're second guessing, that's it. I can do it. And you can even do the hand gesture. I can do it. I can do it.

And that's how you can become unstoppable that I can do it is really, really important. The first one, I love myself, when you say that I love myself, can you feel how the emotions affect you? I love myself. When you are dealing with a difficult situation, and you don't know if you will succeed, you can just say, I love myself. You see the power that it has the power that words convey. I love myself.

You are giving a presentation you have a job interview, you're asking for raise and you are stressing, I can do it. I love myself. And that's how you can become a confident and the last one is I am enough. You may be thinking oh my god, I'm not good enough. I'm a loser. I don't have any value.

You just Say, I'm enough. And you just think about that. I'm enough. I'm enough. I'm just going to do my best. I am enough.

So I would like you to develop here, these five beliefs. And one way to do that, and how I did that is that I wrote them down next to my mirror. It means that every morning when I wake up, I would see the sentences here, and I would read them and I would feel them. And when I started with the I'm enough, it was it was basically it was I mean off with woman, this was one I really wanted to work on. So I had the I mean of this woman, and the first day that I read that I say, that's a bunch of crap. I mean, I'm not enough.

And every day I would do that. And then after I think about was like 15 days I say, Okay, this sentence is still here. Am I enough is woman I started challenging my beliefs. And I started reading, I mean a woman, I mean if this woman, and then I started acting with women and started approaching women, and then I started seeing parts of interactions that said, Oh, I mean of this woman, and then it reinforced my belief. And that's how you can reinforce your beliefs. So I would say, write them down next to your mirror every morning, every night you read them.

And if you did that for one year, or for 100 days, it will stick in, and you will start focusing on references that will make these beliefs stronger, if you're interested, because these are, I will say is the quickest process that you have. But there is a process that that is more efficient, is first remove the limiting belief that you have, and then replace it with this slide here. If you're interested. We do a lot of live events. You can check my website. It's Alan with coaching.com and you can find an event They're and we really dig deeply into that then we have amazing transformations.

We have people who cry, people who scream, people who just change the way they behave just because of disbelief. So it's really really powerful. But for now, write them down next to mirror every morning every night here with debt.