Hi there, I wanted to mention one other potential big pitfall in choosing what you think might be your life goals but aren't like Miss goals, right? And ego based goals, right? So for example, one of your friends gets a really cool car or whatever, by the house does this whatever, does something very visible Showboat ostentatious that you can see and you're like, and you see everybody else going like, Wow, that's so cool. And you start hearing your own inner voice going like, wow, I want that. Hmm, that does look really cool. I want that.
Okay, I want that. And that's my life goal is very different, right? But if you have enough of this, you see your friend all the time you see that thing that they're showing off with you, you see that them having something you don't and all of a sudden, you're like, well, I gotta get that. It's not your goal. It's not one of the major labels that you have. It's ego driven.
And you see it all the time. It's in front of you. Maybe it's in your social circle or you know, maybe you live in an area where they're like rich people, and you're like, I want to be rich, but like, you know, I'm so it kind of gets on you right? Like you feel not as good about yourself and you think like I my life is gonna be great if I have that. But maybe it's not, you know, maybe just looks like it. But so it's very easy to let your ego to get you to want something and to start kind of working for it, which will really just focus your efforts on you know, will distract you really from driving towards your main main goal, the things that you really decided by looking deep inside yourself.
That is your main goal, right? So be very careful about letting your ego drive you and I know a lot of people who made this mistake I personally I can admit that I've made that mistake before especially I was susceptible to it when I was younger. Now I'm more able to catch myself on it. But still, it's not always easy to catch yourself. So that's just one thing that really watch out for that and don't let yourself fall into That mental trap