So what happens if you set a big goal? Let's say you want to become a billionaire, okay? Um, you're gonna hear yourself, tell you why you can do that you're gonna, every one you tell your goal to they're gonna laugh with you, they're gonna be like, No, you can your parents are gonna be like, um, you know, that's great. But why don't you just get a job because it's secure, and you'll be fine, at least right? Or something like that. So everybody will have a reason to tell you why you can't do it.

Right. In my case, also, I had a lot of people telling me why I can do you know, I wanted to start a business. Everybody was like, it's great. But how did you get a job? It's safe, its secure. Business has a very low chance of success.

Bah, bah, bah, bah, bah. Can't do it can't do it. You know, all these people make you feel the self doubt. But the self doubt you and you're going to start that self doubt that people, other people that they have for themselves. They're going to give it to you and that going to make you doubt your own goals. But you kind of have to be believing in your own goals, right?

You have to believe in your own goals. They might be crazy, right? That can mean it doesn't sound like a like a reasonable goal, right? become a billionaire. I mean, there's only like, a few people like that in the world really already. But it's a even if your goal is to be the wealthiest person in the world, well, only one person in the world can be that right?

So it's almost impossible. But at the same time, you can still have that goal because if you even if you fall short of this grid goal, you're still gonna end up somewhere pretty great in most cases, right? But you certainly you won't even try if you have that those doubts in the back of your mind that are given to you by you know yourself but really given to you by the other people who are always telling you why you can't, you know, not gonna happen not gonna work or blah, right. There's a lot of people out there, you know, they have their own doubts, they pass them to you, you start to replay that record in your mind. Mind and then all of a sudden you're not believing in your own self. But you got to believe in your own self.

You got to believe in your own, like, talent in Europe, just, you know the one thing that it's possible like one person can achieve a lot if they really work hard for it right? And no, it's very basic to say. But the point of saying this is to recognize all the doubts and the doubters that are always there in the back of your mind not believing in you. And you have to find the way to believe in yourself. And sometimes it's as basic as maybe you find somebody who does believe in you, are you surrounded surround yourself with people who do believe in you or who have also goals and who understand you. And then you feed on that positivity.

It becomes a positive loop where you feed the self belief, that kind of thing. And that just makes the journey easier for you. It makes you less likely to quit and You know, it doesn't depress you right like the self doubt stuff that really can be really depressing at times. So it you know, it means the lows lower. Um, so that's really it, you know, just wanted to kind of help you guys understand that. You know, don't buy into the negativity don't buy into that.

No you can't. Because Yeah, you possibly can