There is a concept I really like. It is okay to be fear is it alright to admit that you are scared? Hello everyone. When it comes to negative emotion, we could consider those our fight or flight response. In this module we will talk about the hand gestures of fighting reactions. Before we begin, let's watch a video clip.
I would like you to pay attention to the ladies Usually when it comes to fighting a hand would be what we use for Therefore, a hand is an indication for seeing a person feel ease or under pressure to prepare to fight. Please understand fighting that then has to be a physical reaction that could happen inside that just fighting stress or pressures. Do remember the amygdala, which we can see there is a safety detector. In a conversation gauge a person's emotional state you can imagine you are the amygdala, what you need to do is defining the person is either in a pressure state or a relaxed state of serving the hand we will discuss two groups of gestures that are consider a reflection of the pressure state and one group of pressures that are creating by positive emotions. group number one is protection. Good.
Number two is low competence group Number three is confidence. Let's talk about the first category protection using hands for self protection such as rubbing hands, rubbing fingers, through doing the arms or the thighs, paying with hair tight nickname, clapping hand, squeezing a hand, biting nails, grabbing arms, tapping fingers in a rhythm as self soothing behaviors that presenting tension, anxiety stress. In the phaedo you can see the actress, she display a few protection behaviors which indicate she is in a nervous emotional state. Also, in the video of the 1960 us a presidential debate the hand of Richard Nixon crunch of fist for protection, which is also showing anxiety prepare to fight crossing arms. Another potential behavior, some people are crossing as a habit or fueling code. However, under various circumstance, it is a protection state of the subconscious mind.
The conscious logical part can still function perfectly. However, the subconscious mind is saying I am protecting myself now. Do not want to escape anything new. Let's watch a video clip to understand crossing arms. It is a tough show in China. You might not understand the language but it's okay I will explain it to you.
The guests Leon light is the Hong Kong celebrity who was showing a confident position for a long while until the host begins talking about woman or romantic relationship. His posture shift to crossing arms twice. In a business situation if a person crosses says arm under a nice condition, such as using different way to open their arms. For example, you could hand them a cup of tea or a piece of information for them to uncross their arms. Otherwise the subconscious invisible wall would rock the information you want to convey. Sometimes people use object to protect themselves in that of the arms, such as bags, books, computer, so on and so forth.
Let's watch an interview video. to third parties. They are using arms and caution to protect their nervous and stressful emotions. The last protection gesture I would like to mention is rubbing the forehead. It is the potential for embarrassment fooling in trouble. Alright, it's time to sum up.
If a person presenting protection gesture. It is thick knowing that invisible wall is up you need to build some connections. In the next module, we will talk about low competence and confidence. And Cheshire's