You might already hear the first impression is very important, but how important is it? Hello everyone in this module we will step into first impassioned. Most people they know it is essential, but they don't know how important it is. We will use a magdala and hippocampus to illustrate the idea to you, and most importantly, how to make a great first impression. Please click the link in the description to watch the movie keep on YouTube. It is a clip from a movie title life as we know it, please go ahead and start at 25 seconds.
Try to understand the woman in the movie. If you were there, what would you feel? So come back when you finished the movie Kip? Santas concur. That first impression has borrowing features. Fast to make last long, difficult To change how fast one 10th of a second to 20 seconds lasting for how long weeks, two months?
How difficult to change, just like a stem cell in the brain. For example, the men in the movie measure who make a first impression for the lady Holly as the grow messy jerk. That impression has been made within 20 seconds and the following couple of years. Whenever Holly thing about Messer the gross messy jerk image occur to her mind again, an angry feeling comes up simultaneously. After that day, even though Holly listen to something good about Messer, she still remembers the first moment you met him and he is a gross messy jerk. So that is the power of the first impassioned let's use the amygdala and hippocampus as an analogy to understand the first impression When Holly met Messer based on the look the coding the attitude her amygdala defined method is not a person in her world, which means is not a friend but an enemy.
As a result, most of the information goes to trigger the bat memory jaw for the Hollies, hippocampus, fire together, wire together, bred impressions trigger bad memories and negative connection to form new memory to store and stick in the negative Jor. Later on any interaction with Mazur, Holly's hippocampus will evoke all the bad memory will lead to grow messy jerk or another can negative description. Nothing would be chicken in the positive door so it makes a vicious circus. In other words, the first impression defines good or bad things thick. More important, the first impression form on The subconscious level which controls actions make a good first impression can lead to positive effect and 5%. In business situation, if you don't want people to focus or only remember something wrong about you, the first impression is the key to help you.
In the next module we will continue how to make an excellent first impression.