Why do we need to learn communication? Why are we master a language? Hello everyone. In this module we will learn to see an invisible barrier of communication so that you could understand why master a language doesn't mean master a conversation. Let's see a movie Kip. I would like you to pay attention to two people in the movie, how much they understand each other.

I think difficult. seems to me like I'm the one carrying the weight around here while you're off doing your own thing. Excuse me. I'm the one out there working to pay this mortgage and I pay for both of the cars Yeah, and that's all you do. I pay all of our bills with my sound which you agreed to do. That's fair.

Do you not like this house? Do you not like your car? Caitlin who takes care of this house me who washes all the clothes me who gets all the groceries me not to mention I'm helping my parents every weekend. You know they're all this pressure on me and the only thing you ever do for anybody's for yourself. Let me tell you Sorry. You don't know the first thing about pressure.

All right, you think I I put out house fires for myself. In this video two persons are fighting with each other. Do you think they understand each other by seeing the same language? The answer is obvious, which is no. However, they both want each other to understand themselves. There's why the husband and wife both ways they're forced to get attention.

I would like you to imagine both of them have a thick glass wall bill in front of them everywhere they say to each other with brown from the grass wall. However, they don't realize that they think they're fast can be delivered to each other, but it didn't. So they keep trying and trying make the voice louder and louder. Let's dig into their conversation. When the woman say Kevin who takes care of this house me who washes all the clothes me who gets all the groceries me not to mention I'm helping my parents every weekend. You know got all this pressure on me and the only thing you ever do for anybody's for yourself, which means she wants her husband to respect her by understand her contribution and effort.

The answer she got from her husband is, let me tell you something you don't know the first thing about pressure. Which means the husband does not think his wife has the wheel pressure he has. They both don't understand each other but themselves. The movie scene is an example I would like you to remember. The guest wall is built in front of everyone. No matter is a friendly or difficult person.

No matter the situation is casual or under pressure. No matter is an acquaintance or a stranger. If you want to deliver your worst thoughts and ideas, you need to break the invisible wall and connect to the person first. Otherwise, what you say will be bound just like this person even more In the next module, we will wash to presidential debates to understand how non verbal expressions affect humans decisions.