Same goes the body Never mind. Hello everyone in this session we will talk about different meanings of different posture from various body parts, you might experience someone words that match his or her body language. Therefore, the target for this session is to read artist body language, as well as be mindful of your own body language to make words and body language consistent body language with facts, emotions, therefore, you would not get a message from body language as same as logical words, because body language is a language of feelings. Let's watch the video clip our presidential debate in 1960. Again, please pay attention to the eyes of each candidate. Good evening.
The television and radio stations of the United States and their affiliated stations are probably To provide facilities for discussion of issues and the current political campaign by the two major candidates for the President. The candidates needs no introduction. The Republican candidates Vice President Richard Nixon, and the Democratic candidate, senator john F. Kennedy. Let's begin with eye contact. In the video when the hosts are speaking, john kennedy who keep his eyes to the audience. This shows confidence.
On the other hand, which makes them His eyes are mainly looking at the host, not the audience. This sews his nervousness imagined as if you were in a classroom, the teacher asked your question. If you don't know the answer, will you have eye contact with the teacher? Or will you avoid eye contact so that the teacher would not ask you to come up to the stage? I would definitely avoid eye contact if I don't have confidence, and I don't know the answer. In other words, eye contact shows competence as well.
As your attention to others, so highly suggest looking at people's arms to be a good first impression. However, I did not mean to engage in a long time eye contact because that will create an uncomfortable feeling to maintain appropriate eye contact for 15% of the time while speaking and 70% of the time while listening that helps to display interest and competence. Let's talk about gazing while you are not making eye contact. Appropriate gazing will help you send the why signal. There are three sections of gazing patterns. Power, gaze, social gaze and intimidate.
The power gaze is there. I want to keep this turn with you. The social gaze is saying I think I am your friend. That intimidate is there. I'm willing to develop a relationship or meaningful friendship. So be mindful of your gazing to send the message One also observe our just gazing pattern to understand them more.
I brought him in five senses the eyes are the organ that with the most information having a broken behavior such as squinting, covering a rubbing eyes, lowering the eyelid, close the eyes bring away increases. These are signals for saying I don't want to receive messages. squinting could also be a negative judging behavior. I brought in my because somebody here something they don't like he has something make them feel stressed, frustrating, annoying, threatening or nervous. So put them pre considering I bragging is information bogging pupils pupils are an interesting one is not easy to observe though. The pupils dilate when we are interested in a person we are talking to or the subject we are doing.
At conversely, it will contract when we feel threatening stress or unwilling. If a person receives that news, the pupils may enlarge at first to receive more information and then contract to bog to receive and willing information. The last one for this module is phony phony is using muscle of the eyebrow to make the eyes model. So I can see there is one of the type rocking behavior that show negative emotions such as this like anxiety, however, is not always negative. A personal phoning could be in a high focus state. I from a lot why I concentrate on my work.
Alright, we take a break here. In the next module, we will continue on other behaviors.