Now let's talk about how you can attract the friends that you want. Have you ever noticed that who you surround yourself with is who you become, because if you are with negative people all the time, you tend to become more negative. Because as human beings, we try to observe the behavior of other people, and consciously and unconsciously, which tend to take their personality traits. So if you hang out with someone that is a leader, and you spent eight hours today with this person, you will become a leader. So why is that important? Because the friends that you will hang out with will show and will shape your destiny and also yourself as a person.

So it's really important to really think about who you would like to attract in your life and who you would like to hang out with. A few years ago, it was even 10 years ago. I was shy I started and I had no friends. So I had a really difficult situation. And it was really difficult for me because when I was growing up, I had all these social difficulties. And I was with friends, I had four friends who were always trying to put me down.

It means that I wanted to approach someone I wanted to do something. And if this if that person would reject me, they would laugh at me. And I was like, Really? You are? You're laughing at me. I am just trying to have better social skills and you're laughing.

And they didn't care. I just wanted to put me down. So what I would like to show you here is that Be really careful who you spend your time with. So the first question I would like to ask you here is, what kind of friends would you like to attract to your life? What are the values? What is the lifestyle?

What do they like doing? What are the personality traits? Here? We would like to find match between who you are and who you would like to attract. But I'm starting here with, we would like to attract. Because maybe later, we'll see if we have to adapt who we are or just change who we are to match the friends that we want to attract.

Let's say that you would like to attract someone who is outgoing, adventurous, and who is really positive. And you are someone who is negative and introverted, in order for you to attract this kind of friends. If it's really the kind of friends that you would like to attract to your life, you must learn how to be more positive and outgoing so that you can match this type of people. So after that you have defined the kind of friend that you really want to hang out with. It's time for you to decide about who you are, about your personality traits, about your values, about your lifestyle, and see if there is a match between who you are or who you think you are. And the friend That you would like to attract.

If there's a match, that's perfect, that's great, you will be able to attract these people. If not, if you see that there is a disconnect between who you are and who you would like to attract. Ask yourself this question, do you really want to attract this kind of friends? If the answer is yes, I encourage you to adapt who you are. It means that if you like to hang out with someone friend who is positive and outgoing, and you are introverted and shy, I encourage you to start putting yourself out there, I really encourage you, for example, to take drama classes, or to do something that will make you a little bit uncomfortable outside of your comfort zone, so that you can start developing these personality traits to attract the kind of friends that you want. Okay, so this video here was about finding the kind of people that you would like to hang out with.

So you define the values, the lifestyle, where were the Hangouts, what do you try to be To paint the picture of your friends, try to find and try to describe your ideal friends. And then when you have that, I would like you to just find out who you are, what are your values? What is your lifestyle? What are your personality traits? You see if there is a match, if there isn't a match, I would like you to think, if you really want to attract this kind of friends. If the answer is yes, I would like you to just develop the personality traits and the things that you need to develop in order to attract this kind of friends.

For example, I did that with the girlfriend I wanted to attract. So I wrote all the qualities of the woman that I wanted to attract. And then I said, Oh, I want someone who is outgoing, adventurous, and right now I'm really shy. I'm introverted. I'm pretty negative. I don't think there is a great match.

So if I really want to attract this woman in my life, I must change I must become who I want. To become into so I had to become a positive mode going more adventurous so that I could attract who I wanted. But it's also something that I wanted deep inside me. I'm not saying, send your personality just to please people. I'm just saying, just be become, who you are meant to be and become who you want to become. Because if you want to hang out with that kind of friends, unconsciously, you want to become a better person so that you can match the criteria.

So just think about who you would like to attract and who you are and find a match