Now let's talk about the power of the one key friend. One key friend, is someone that you can always hang out with. And that has the qualities of the friends that you would like to attract. So maybe right now in your social circle, or there is someone that you know, and is the perfect friend that you would like to hang out with. And what I encourage you to do is to reach out to this person and just say, Hey, you know what, I'm trying to build a new social circle. And I would like to go to display on Tuesday, to meet that kind of people would you like to come with me?
And if the person is a good friend of yours, and the person is nice, friendly, and they want also to meet other people, then we say yes. And then what will be easier is that when you will approach new people, you will have someone that is already your friend, and it will be easier for you, because you will have already social proof. It means that you have already someone that likes you and it's better When you go in, you approach new people. So my question to you is, do you have someone that you know, that has the qualities of the friends that you would like to hang out with? Think about it, you can go through your phone and look at every number that you haven't say, it is my one key friend, and you try to look for at least one if you have three even better, and then you contact them, and you ask them if they would like to hang out with you to meet new people.
So be careful here. Don't just hang out to someone that you know, there's just because you don't have anyone else. I'm really saying that you should find someone that has the qualities of the new friends that they would like to attract. Because in my case, when I started, I hang out with someone who was really like who had nothing in common with me, and the person was a little bit weird and really negative. So, sometimes it's better to go out alone to meet new people than to go out with someone that you really don't connect with. Because when you will be meeting new people, people will sense if you don't really connect with the person that you are with, and they will think that it's weird.
So try to find one key friend, and if you don't have one, don't worry, you can still approach people and make new friends.