So what is the right way of keeping in touch regularly. So first, I encourage you to keep in touch regularly with the person, because maybe you had a great interaction with that person, but it happened in a certain moment in time. So what you want to do is that you want to continue interacting with the person, maybe once a week, or every day depends on the relationship that you have with the person. But the idea is that they will, they don't have to forget you. Because if you just interact with them, and then you don't text them for six months, maybe they forgot you and they don't remember how they felt towards you. But if you continue the relationship through text, or through Facebook, or WhatsApp, it will be easier to really connect with them and to do something later.
So what I encourage you to do, is to send texts that are, I would say, value giving text, and also text that could remind them of an inside joke. that you had. So for example, let's say that you meet someone in a dancing class. And then you made the joke that you and the other person, you were the world's best dancers. And then the other person laughed and you had a great time. You can text the other person.
Are you ready for the words dancing competition that is happening tonight, or something like that, and then with a smiley, to reinitiate, the drogue the inside joke that you had between you two. If you go when you meet someone, I would say in a bar, and you talk about an amazing cocktail that you like, are and that comes from their countries. Let's say that you are talking to someone from Brazil, and they love drinking. Kiplinger. Yes. And you talked about that.
During the night. In the text that you send you can you can say you can say something about Caitlyn has never, I mean, try To find to really see the inside joke that only you and the other person know, and it will be really, really powerful. And then you can also call the other person you can text them, but always in a value giving mentality, because the person doesn't really know how you act through text messages or through Facebook. And they don't want you to text them too often. So try to be really light, maybe wait a few days before your next text, or before initiating the conversation for so if someone answers and says back, yes, but maybe wait a few weeks, then you reinitiate again, you said another question, another sentence or something, and you start creating the relationship, but don't force things let it happen naturally, but at the same time, you have to lead the conversation.
And then you can ask to meet you can ask to do something. And if you did it right. The person we say yes