There are some wonderful beautiful things that partners can do during pregnancy. Up till now we primarily given practices to mom to the pregnant woman. But her partner can be so incredibly helpful in this process and bring loads of divine energy to. Now if the partner is the biological father, then we highly recommend to the Father but as well as the mother to do certain divine practices before conception that are listed in the womb chakra teachings at the divine lineage org. These helped to clear karma. And if you're interested in thinking about that, look at the segment on karma and pregnancy and they also help to prepare parents to be in gauged in what is basically a woman chakra event in the world.

Also, if you are thinking about it early enough in the process before conception, both parents can engage in a creation of the Divine child energy that is sitting there in the womb chakra information. But let's remember that biological fathers also have a spark of soul that has made and created this child in the womb. And that spark of soul has some piece of dad's vibration. And when you father are in a place of pure open heartedness and connecting to mother when you're praying together or chanting together, or staring in each other's eyes, or connecting through kind words, and loving touch, your vibration of your soul is activated and like The vibration of the soul of your child is to look for all partners. We want you to engage Soul to Soul, with the pregnant mother, really engaging from that place of love engaging from that place of care.

Remember, everything mother feels baby feels to. You are loving your child by loving your partner. I'm going to give you a couple of ways to do that, that are particularly poignant for the soul. The first is exchanging energy idi with the partner. They say the eyes are the windows to the soul. Well, you know what they kind of are.

Looking eye to eye is a soul mechanism. It does make a soul connection. So just open your heart Look lovingly into the eyes of the pregnant mother, really holding that gaze with love, and with care and attention. You know, it's okay to giggle in it. It's a little hard we don't normally look I do we really don't. But you know what?

Psychology shows us that they've measured the amount of time people spend staring into another's eyes that when we're falling in love, we spend the most time in our lives staring into somebody else's eyes. just fall in love again, shall we? Yeah, fall in love with one another and that sensation of love is an eternal dynamic. It is an eternal energetic of God. That baby will feel that love. Also, we can work through the heart chakra or Daya chakra now, one beautiful mechanism for opening people's heart chakra is to rub their feet.

How many pregnant women want their feet rubbed, raise your hand. You know, like if we were in a big audience, every pregnant woman's hand would be up. And this is key for the partner, not just because it's we locked into the pregnant woman because her feet hurt. But because this opens the heart chakra. It opens the heart chakra of the person who's getting their feet wrapped. If you come to your partner with your open heart to rubbing those feet, rather than begrudgingly not another photo, put them over here, you know?

No, if you come from that place of pure love and you then your heart chakra is open, and you are rubbing open the heart chakra of Your Beloved there of the mother of your child. And because baby experiences what mother's experiencing, it's very likely you're touching and connecting to the heart chakra of your child. Now another plate thing that you can do there, if you happen to have divine channels, or if you happen to be practitioner, something you can do is to do healing on mother's heart chakra. There are three primary healing points for a healer in my tradition, third eye Heart Chakra, and what's called NaVi chakra or navel. And so it is possible to transmit energy very strongly through these three chakras third eye, Heart Chakra, and navel. If you're not a traditional experienced healer, you'd still transmit love.

Absolutely, you can do that. Place your hand on the mother's heart chakra. First of all, always clear yourself first. Always have a clear mind. no distractions, just thinking pure thoughts of unconditional love, pure thoughts of adoration, pure thoughts of loving compassion and care. And when you were there, place your hand on the mom's heart chakra.

You could do this while you were looking in her eyes for that matter. And just breathe. Breathe that energy from you to her. You can also do this with the thumb place downward on the heart chakra as well. And then the other place is the navel. The navel is an interesting place.

It's not only one way that we access the womb chakra which doesn't really have a specified position but it is also the place where this of something called the non event do not agree Do roams around about in the body but it's usually about one and a half inches below the navel. This not a Bindu is a point a creation point. It is the point which in front of the noddin do is everything in creation behind the knot of India with the nothing and heaviness and everything that is before creation the possibility of everything so that creation point there's a creation point and everything that has been created in this world isn't the solution is it not have been doing you there's not a vendor in the tree next door there's a not a bin do in the rock. There's a not a bin do in everything.

But when we access the nada bin do energy we're accessing a creation point. We're accessing an activation point that connects us into the great oneness of creation. It is that place where on one side is duality on a The other side is the oneness of creation on one side is the illusion and the created elements of everything on the other side is the everything and the non oneness. So when we activate our own not have been do or we activate the not have into one another we're connecting them to that oneness, that place of God's realm, that place of the Divine mother's realm. So again thinking with pure love, pure compassion, going into the silence, going into the silence with them. This is a way to start activating your own, not have been do in you to activate the not have been do is to go into the silence within.

Also in the womb chakra course there are a number of other mechanisms using the personal mantra and what's called a PIN code to the womb womb chakra to activate Not have been doing as well. But anybody can just for a moment, take that moment of silence in you and start activating that not have been do and then place your hand or again your thumb down on the navel of the other. I really like to have partners breathe together and meditate together. Really going into that silence together and then contacting heart to heart, navel to navel, or even sometimes spine to spine. It's really a beautiful experience of connecting the energy of partners and when babies in the womb babies connected to another thing that all partners can do is chant the nine arrows during the pregnancy for protection nine arrows is it was is presented in the earlier aspects have for mothers to do after the first trimester.

But partners can do the nine arrows throughout the pregnancy and even before conception. These nine arrows are very strong protection circles, extremely strong, they're connected to Shiva. Shiva is the creator destroyer. But Shiva is also the great, masculine protector. It is that divine masculine energy that you're calling on to create protection circles for the pregnancy. And all you have to do is put that in your intent, I please God, bring protection to my child and to my partner, and then chat the nine arrows.

Now there are also some kind of worldly things that I'm going to mention today. That are ways that partners can help in a sacred pregnancy. pregnancy is a miraculous timing. It's a delicate timing, and it's a sacred timing. And we need to treat it as such. We can't just think business as usual, it is not business as usual.

And any mother can tell you that her emotions will go up and down, her weight is going to go up. her feelings about herself are going to go here and there. She may have morning sickness, she may have physical exhaustion, she may become irritated. She may have body image issues or just plain old physical discomfort as our body changes. And all these things can make it quite a bumpy ride for mom. So number one, don't expect it to be same old, same old, she's not the same.

She's not the same and that's good. She's not the same. Her hormones are different, her body Different. She's one with another human being in a way that any of us will only ever experience and then we'll have our mothers. And that's the sacred understanding here. She's one, there's a oneness in her.

There's a place in her that has touched the state of God. state of God that is in oneness with everything. And being one with that baby in the womb. Help her to feel that help her to experience that sacred difference, not just the difference of up and down hormones and morning sickness, but also the difference of a oneness that is with her that was not there before. So huge amounts of love and huge amounts of compassion. Huge amounts of care are what's needed during this process of pregnancy.

On the more mundane side of things, mother may be tired. exhaustion is a huge aspect of different phases of pregnancy. And mom being tired may mean that she can't do everything she used to do help. Help with the chores without being asked. That's even better. Keep an eye on her.

How is she doing? What is she straining to do that run over and help? Just that kind of attention to what she may be experiencing even on a daily level with doing this thing or doing that thing is such a precious way of expressing love. I attend to you at the level that I see your needs. Oh don't we all want that A great practice for a parent to see the needs of another experience. Understanding what it looks like when another needs something from you.

And giving it giving it open hearted loving, giving it freely jumping in, to give. Also, listen to mom, listen to her. She may have fears, she may have dreams, she may have incredible experiences to share. She may have things good and bad going on that she needs to talk about. Listen, respond with no judgment, no blame, just with understanding and with love. already mentioned meditating and praying together.

I think it's such a beautiful practice. It really allows for the Two souls to be engaged with the third soul. They're the soul of the baby in a beautiful, beautiful way. And I think I've already mentioned in other places the synchronization exchange of that positive energy of meditation, or the place of the silence or of prayer is a beautiful experience. And touching spines is one way to do that to really shy and touching spines are another way to do that connection, of that meditative energy of that love energy of that prayer energy between you. spine to spine, you can be lying down you can be sitting up or lying down doing spine to spine I think during pregnancy, it's a lot easier for the woman to just lay on her side, and for the partner to connect their spine to the pregnant woman's spine.

And it doesn't have to be perfect and I'm like, I think I'm missing a vertebra there. Oh, we can get our tail bones together. Don't think like that, get the touching, get the connection. That's vital energy is where that column of Kundalini leaning energy moves up and down. And that just allowing for that some connection there. As you breathe deeply, maybe you don't know how to meditate.

Maybe you don't pray, breathe deeply together. Just have a common breath with one another. And again, don't worry about Oh, she breathes a little deeper than I do her breath a shower than mine. Who cares? Just so you're a little synchronous, just a little connection. Just so your intention and your attention is there.

It's beautiful experience. You really feel the harmony of that. You can pamper her with loving touches. foot massages, okay? And loving words and loving looks. Tell her She's beautiful.

A lot of women worry about that during pregnancy. Tell her from your heart, what is in your heart and also know that she's being the Divine Mother in that timing. She's really taking on something that only Gods do. I mean, everybody on the planet does it right but still, it's time sacred, it's magical, it's mystical, adore her for that. See that in her. See the Divine Mother creator in front of you and in her focus on making her feel good about herself and feel good about this process.

To baby will feel good then to practice taking care. That take care approach you're going to need as a parent, so might as well practice it now. Do the little loving things. You know, great grand gestures are wonderful. And I enjoy watching the hallmark movies as much as anybody else. But in real life, sometimes it's just the small things that really convey love.

Really seeing what someone is feeling in the moment, acknowledging it, really seeing what another main need in that moment and giving it really coming open hearted in those moments of your own positive thoughts and telling them to the other. But part of taking care is taking care on negativity as well. And part of the partner's job is to shield mom and baby from certain types of negativity. Certainly, we shield them from secondhand smoke and alcohol and you know, a host of environmental toxins and things like that. Why aren't we not kind of shielding them from negative emotions? And violent images, and so on, that occur all around us in our environment.

I know some people don't think that's an issue. I'm just saying that I do think it's an issue. But the two I see goes straight to the heart, the heart chakra, that heart beat, and that heart chakra are intimately related to the creation in the world. And so we really need to know where our hearts are, and what they're being influenced by, and what our two icy cows counts there. Now, you know, I might be a little extreme, I personally don't even watch the news, just for my daily life. I'm not pregnant, you know, I'm past those days, but I don't because I don't want to be influenced by that.

If there's people who need praying for someone will tell me, I don't need to watch it. I don't need to engage I don't need to change my heart vibration by engaging violence or negativity. So there might be a little taking care we would want to do with pregnant mom in that regard, as well, you know, life continues. Not only is life developing in the womb, your life is continuing and all eyes have their ups and downs and things happen in their financial problems. And there are issues that arise and there are relatives who pass during these timings. And so many things can happen during a pregnancy.

And these are things that do have to be met, we can't be shielded from relative passing away. You know, there it happens. So, meet these things together. Hopefully with some unconditional love involved. stand side by side, be loving, be honest, that the team meeting everything that comes together. You know, I think that's what I love most about my husband is we're a team.

I don't have to do it alone. And your pregnant partner shouldn't feel she has to do it alone either. Whatever it is, just be there. Be there. Be present, be positive. Be involved.

Be involved in her dreams for the future. Be involved in learning and planning. Be involved in the classes in the appointments. Be involved in the person be in vault your internet counts partner. It does and it counts one extra during pregnancy.