This is an introduction to some basic moves for touching and pleasuring the Yoni. Now one of the things we're going to do first in this course, is we're not going to dive immediately for the collectors. Now the collectors is a pleasurable place to touch. However, if we ignore the rest of the Yoni and the rest of the body, the clutches can be desensitized quite quickly and can go numb, and can actually be quite irritating. So you might know exactly how to find it, and you're touching and you're thinking you're doing such an amazing job and she's sitting there thinking about the shopping and you can feel her body's closed down to you, and you're not quite sure why. Because, hey, you're in the right place, aren't you?

Well, no, because all of this is the right place and including the rest of her body. We're going to specifically focus this time on how to touch the Yoni or the vulva, which is considered the outside portion and the vagina which is considered the inside portion. I use the word Yoni. In Sanskrit, that means sacred space. And this is a sacred space. I'm going to teach you how to honor and touch in a way that is going to build arousal.

In generally speaking, women take 27 minutes to reach full arousal. With some of these techniques. It is a little faster, however you need to commit and you need to be watching her body and watching her breathing. Really good idea to start with a Heart Journey connection. So with one hand on her heart, and one hand covering her Yoni, very delicately and gently, just doing some breathing together to understand what you're going to be sharing. Now, some gentle touch techniques, you're going to start with doing little circles.

So using one finger in the groin crease that we've learned from the anatomy videos, you can just start by doing very little circles. Can you see what I'm doing? little circles all the way down, the go increase. Now, you might be thinking this isn't doing Much believe you mean there are such rich nerve endings on the Yoni, that even that is going to feel amazing and it's going to feel very different to her body because you're not diving in and touching clitoral directly. You're actually activating all of these nerves before you get into anything too intense. So you can do little circles also on the outer labia.

So if you did both sides, because obviously you're going to do this on both sides. So you've got little circles on the going crease, and then little circles on the labia. So that's one sort of move. We're not going to move to the inner labia just yet because a little too close to the Tetris nerves for now. So then you can also do a very small back and forth motion. So little stroking motion or stroking motion, you can do like this, or you can do it side to side like this.

Now this isn't sports massage, so I don't want you to be feeling for lumps and really pushing and all of that I want to be quite gentle, not necessarily a tickle, but Maybe slightly more than a typical, it's good idea to check in with your partner and say, how does this pressure feel? Ask questions that have got like a yes or no answer or answer because that's easy for her not to get back into her head, but to stay in her body. So little notions like so, a little up and down motions. Then you can also use the waterfall hand technique of actually gently brushing the hands over the only not concentrating on anything specific. Obviously, you're going to do this on both sides as well. And use the waterfall technique with two fingers as well.

So you would be doing finger finger finger finger finger like so. And the pleasurable technique and that is that it feels like the touches not stopping. There's just continuing continuing continuing so there's no separation to the body. Then, in between the outside layer and the inside layer is with tutorial legs sit for the tutorial, branch notes and what happened is when a woman becomes aroused in between these two sets of lips. Now remember, all women are built differently from our anatomy videos. So the inner lips could be quite small or they could be quite large outer lips could be quite small, nonexistent or quite large.

It just depends on your biology how you're built, but in between these two sets of lips, is the legs of the tour branch notes. And they feel absolutely amazing to just be very gently again circled on move side to side, or up and down. Now remember, that's a really good idea before you start doing this with your partner to make sure you have manicured hands. If you've got incredibly rough hands because you're a workman or you work a lot with your hands, get yourself some of those nice latex gloves because then you will be smooth and the corner of your nail won't be catching on any of this thin, very delicate, very nerve filled tissue. So that's a couple of different techniques. You can use this also Using the entire hand over the money, and circling like so, now that you can use throughout the touch work that you're doing, because every time you go back to this, you're sending the body a different message.

And every time you're doing something different with her body, her body's going, ah, what's that, as opposed to, I know what you're going to do, you're going to play with my nipples, then you're going to touch my clitoris, and then you're going to hope that I'm turned on. So you're doing something very different here. So, according to Tao, sexual practice, clockwise means you're turning her on an anti clockwise means you're grounding her and relaxing her. So watching her body and watching her breathing, you can decide whether you'd like to dial up the energy by going clockwise, or dial it down slightly by going anti clockwise. Next, the Yoni invitation. So it's a good idea while you're doing all of this if you'd like to practice a technique called anchoring, so it's by taking your thumb and placing it at the entrance to the unit.

But not inside, just gently at the entrance. And then at some point while you're massaging with the other hand, you'll find the Yoni will invite you in, it will either suck your thumb in, or you'll find that your son with no force or no pushing from you will be inside the Yoni. It's called the Yoni invitation. And that means she's ready for internal work, which we'll cover in another video. Another good idea here is you can do all of this very basic touch work with no oil, you can do that as long as you're touching incredibly gently, and you're not staying on any area for too long. However, if you wanted to make this an extended massage technique, and really concentrate on the entire Yoni, you would need to apply an oil first.

Now you can use an organic coconut oil that tends to have no reaction from the body. It tends to not be an allergic oil at all, but check in with your partner as to what she'd like as well. And think about what you're using as a birth control because if you're using condoms, using Any sort of oil is a bad idea. I have an 18 year old child because I use baby oil and it wasn't all off. At that point we were using condoms, condom broke, I had a child, best accident I've ever had. But if you're keeping an eye on your birth control, maybe that's something you need to look at.

Next touch technique, the parent name. Now the parent name is something that's often very ignored. The parent name is just below the entrance to the Yoni or to the vagina. And if the anus was over here, with feces comes out where poo comes out, that preparing him so she wouldn't really sit like that she'd be sitting like that on the body, but just for demonstration purposes, easier to have a like that. So it's a little section of tissue here that actually stretches to almost paper thin when a woman gives birth. Now that little section of muscle body there is incredibly filled with nerve endings and feels incredibly pleasurable and you can actually have a pair in your organs You can actually be taken through to full orgasm as a woman by just having the parent Niamh, massage and stroked.

So again, all of those techniques that we've already learned the little circles on the parent here, a little back and forth movement, a little side side movement, and be creative. If you do circles first, and then side to side second, and then you're holding the 23rd. The next time you try that, mix it up and do it a different way around. Because you want to keep the body interested in going Ah, oh, that's nice. What's that? What's that?

Not? Oh, yeah, I know what you're going to do next. And watch her breathing at the same time. So you want to keep her breathing deep and relaxed. The moment she moves into shallow breathing or starts lifting her buttocks towards you. You want to calm her down, and you want to just get her to breathe, even breathe with her if you like say Breathe in and breathe out and relax and breathe in and breathe out so you could have your hand again, just doing little circles on the only one up Breathing with her, because what you want to do here is to take her into a very deep and relaxed state of sexual arousal, not a quick friction based sense of sexual arousal, which is fun because then you might be able to have one singular clitoral orgasm, but then you're likely to desensitize a number culturist as well.

The more relaxed she is, and the longer this takes, the more likely you are to have a bigger pleasure reaction from her body. So that's the parent your massage, and a very basic Yoni massage, adding one thing to the very basic Yoni massage. On the top of the Yoni here, I think we discussed this in the anatomy video as well, is the pubic bone and along the top of the pubic bone, so let's say that's the pubic bone. So over here, on the top of the pubic bone, if you actually push in with your finger or your thumb and make circles along the entire top of the pubic bone, you're actually also activating an exterior G spot point. Because the gland for the G spot is actually around about that size, and it goes right through behind. And then you can actually feel like a passageway if you move your fingers from side to side on the top of the pubic bone.

Now, you tend to need to only want to activate those points and do little circles and massages on this point, which would be above the pubic bone. Once you really know she's aroused. How do you know she's aroused? Firstly, because hopefully, you've had a discussion about sharing some of that stuff, but not too much while you're working with the body. But she's making noises of appreciation. So she's doing the sound and the motion, she's, you can hear that there's mean her voice she's enjoying it, there might be a little bit of body movement, and you're starting to see the flesh here, along the front of her neck, and in certain other parts of her body.

This is normally called the sexual flesh because the neck and above the breasts will become incredibly rare, almost like a blush. Some redness will be seen in her face. And also it's a likely that her nipples will be fairly erect. It's not the same for every single woman. So if you're not seeing those things, don't panic, you're not doing it wrong. But don't do anything along this top line of the pubic bone until you've seen one or more of those body signs.

So that's our basic Yoni massage. There's one more move I'd like to teach you just before I forget. So it's taking one finger and very gently, and this you do need oil for this one, please don't do this one, that oil, just slipping between the two sets of Libya and actually circling up to the top of the clitoral hood and then down the other side so it's between the sets of lips like so. So you're going up like that and down the other side. Now this is quite close to the glitters and we don't want to be doing any collateral work yet. So but basically on your massage, we want to stay very much on the labia and the outside and the growing crease, and also on the tops of the thighs.

We can put our hands flat on the tops of eyes, and we're doing just circles like so, we can also be putting our hands on the hips, and doing circles like so. So we're concentrating on the whole of the sexual organ and where all of the nerves lie. So quick recap, we can massage very gently with the palm of our hands on top of the legs, and by the hips. We can also then start in the groin crease using circle techniques using waterfall techniques, stroking our fingers through. And if we've got rough hands or not manicure, we're not sure we're going to wear gloves, because they're just going to make it easy. If we're only doing a little bit and there's not going to be too much intense touching, don't have to use oil.

But for everything else, let's use oil if we want to anchor at the same time, so we're using one hand to massage other hand to anchor just to see if we're getting a Yoni invitation. We can do that. So one thumb would anchor and then the other hand would do the massage work. So that's a basic reek of some basic Yoni massage. Don't forget to connect Don't forget to honor remember this is her sacred space and it's your place of worship. Enjoy