So now what happens when the manifester does not take the time to inform the manifester who is not following the strategy of informing others before taking action gets to experience the not self emotion of anger. That's right. The manifester who doesn't inform will experience anger. Now, anger is going to happen both ways. The manifester is going to become angry because it feels like people that are being obstacles or offering resistance to their intended actions. or others will become angry at the manifester because they're feeling like they just got ran over by a ball that got put into motion and they have no idea what just happened.
So once again, the manifester who does not take the time to inform will experience anger and that anger is a two way street. The manifester becomes angry and sometimes those affected by the action of the manifester will also become angry. I'd like to tell you a story about a not self manifester, not self manifester means a manifester who is not following the strategy of informing others before taking action. So there was a husband and the wife. The husband is a manifester. The wife is a generator, they had a really rough week, you see, they normally have two cars, but this week, her timing belt broke in her car on the expressway.
So it wasn't a very simple fix. It was a more complicated repair. So that means they're down to one car. So they're playing this game of drop her off, pick him off musical cars, so to speak. Now, every Friday night, at the end of their work week, they normally would get together, they'd go out for dinner and they'd go to a movie. However, after this kind of work week, they decided to forego that.
So the main Fs your husband suggests How about we just go for takeout, we go to the red box, we pick up a couple of DVDs, and we just have a nice, quiet, peaceful evening at home. The wife agrees and says, that sounds good to me. So that's what they do. They go to Chinese, they get takeout, they go to the Redbox, they get a couple of movies. Now, the manifester happened to be off today. He didn't work today, however, his wife put in a long day.
When they get home, he says, Honey, I'm going to prepare the takeout and she says, great. I'm going to take a shower, get out of my work clothes, and I'll be ready in just a few minutes. So that's what happens. She gets to the shower, he starts preparing the takeout now, he's thinking this is usually movie night for them. And on movie nights, they usually have a big thing of popcorn. So he goes to look in the kitchen cupboard and lo and behold, there's no popcorn there.
So he decides that while she's in the shower, He's going to make a quick run down to the corner grocery store, and he's going to pick up some popcorn. So he leaves to pick up the popcorn. When he's at the grocery store, he runs into a buddy, one of his friends from American Legion or VFW one of those places, and they start to chatting before he knows another five minutes have gone by. He leaves with the popcorn from the grocery store. He says it's been a really rough week, maybe I'm going to go back in and get a bottle of wine. So he goes back in now to buy a bottle of wine.
He runs into another body and before you know what another five minutes in conversation has gone by, so it's been a good 15 minutes since he left the house. In the meantime, the wife gets out of the shower. She's like, honey, honey, honey, where are you and guess what? He's nowhere to be found. Now, they had decided it was going to be a nice quiet evening at home. So when they got home, they had both turned their cell phones on to silent so she's dialing the cell phone dialing the cell phone, going straight to voicemail.
Now she was really worried what could have happened. All he was doing was preparing the takeout dinner. Anyway, he comes home He's so excited. He's got the popcorn. He's got the bottle of wine. The minute he walks in the door.
Do you think they had a nice quiet peaceful evening at home? Absolutely not. You know why she was furious because he did not take the few minutes to stick his head into the bathroom and say, by the way, Honey, I'm running down to the grocery store. I'll be back shortly. So here's an example real life example of the not self manifester, who did not take the time to inform and resulted in anger. It has been my experience that informing is a two way street.
It's important for the manifester to inform others before taking action. However, I have also discovered that the manifester really appreciates being informed by others. as well. Most manifestos are very independent. And this can be a slight problem during childhood. In fact, many manifestos have been told no so much as a child that they have learned to conform.
They've given up their manifesto powers and just learn to conform. Other manifestos on the other hand, are not anyway interested in conforming and they have learned to rebel. And sometimes we'll see this dance between conforming and rebelling with the manifester conform, rebel, conform, rebel. Sometimes in early childhood, the manifester will conform only as soon as they become a teenager or young adult, they go into the rebellious stage. Sometimes it happens just the opposite. We have a very rebellious youngster manifester.
And as they become more mature and become young adults, they start to learn to conform. So once again, there's this dance between rebelling and controlling For me, that happens with the manifester