About fate, you think some people are fated to be together? I do. I do. I think a lot of people actually fated to be together who are married and like, especially when they conceive children together, whether you believe in fate or not. But the one story that sticks out in my mind the most is me and my wife. Tamra.

So in high school, I was like this football player, you know, they stuck the edge. And then, one day, I'm sitting standing up my locker as a senior high school, the big stuff on the football team and the here behind me. Hi, turn around. I go. God, it's a freshman, you know, freshman to walk. And then then my subconscious mind kind of went on overdrive, go.

Wait a minute. She's cute. She's blonde, you know, she's hot. And I go, hi. And so that was Tamra So, so Tamra was a cheerleader, she was a prodigy ballerina, and you know, she's kind of high up on the arts and stuff. And so, you know, we knew each other in high school, there's a few little romantic interludes, you know, senior, and they're freshmen.

But in case so there is a connection man, we connected like once or twice in college, you know, when I came back from college, I come visit her or if she was in town and stuff, we go out on dates or whatever. And so however, we did make the fatal mistake of like kissing on a bridge one night in Spokane, so that was kind of sealed the deal. So any case Tamra goes off and does her life in the arts has her kids, I go do my thing. And then then I'm going through my divorce for the second time. And I was so Facebook was just out for the first time. And so I was I was reading this marketing book, saying hate with power.

To use technology for marketing and so they say, well, we'll get on this thing called Facebook and tell everybody you know, and, and make them your friends. I go. Okay, so I'll do that. And so Tamra is one of them. And I and then I hear back from her. So it's like, oh, hi, how you doing?

I've been thinking about you. And so I thought, Wow, she's available. And so so what happens is that we see I found out she's just she had just gone or she was going through a divorce, she was separated. And so we start this email distance she was in San Francisco I was in Bellingham long distance email, and what we learned through each other in all this emails that we both have this really deep spiritual experiences in life, which is really unusual. And then so she finally comes up to visit and you know, I did some healing work with her help her get over anxiety attacks and stuff like that. And so is that connection So we're still together now and that's been 10 years.

And so it seems like it's deeply faded to this day. So it seems like we have a reason to be together and so it's so unusual that we've cycled back around like that. So that's great.