Welcome to day 16. Yesterday, you were decluttering your home, you're removing things that don't serve you or just take up space or have a bad memory, you're opening yourself up physically, to allow more of positive things to come into your life you making space. So today is about decision making decision making is one of the most important things to look at. Because every day you make thousands of decisions, you have thousands of thoughts in your mind. And all your decisions that you made yesterday, or the year before or the decade before have all led to where you are now. And when you think about it, you've made decisions on yourself who to who to hang out with what to say, what to ask, what not to ask, what to eat, what to think there's so many decisions and Guess what no one ever brings this to your attention that you are making decisions.

And all those decisions that you make will lead you to where you are now lead you to your abundance. And when you learn how to be a good decision maker, then you make decisions that will give you more abundance. All abundant people, wealthy people, successful people, extremely good decision makers. They are very concise, and they're very deliberate. Whereas most of us don't think about the decision they make right now. They're not really thinking about the tiny decisions daily.

They kind of allow other people to make decisions for them. So this is a skill that you need to develop is to be very deliberate in your decision making, so that it's honed in for success. And that you are running your show and someone else's in dictating to you I've noticed that A lot of people don't have confidence and women particularly don't have confidence. If you look at your upbringing in school, you're, you aren't really allowed to make decisions. You're told what to do. You're you have to be obedient, you have to apply your authorities, you have to be a certain way and you have to conform.

So that isn't any that's that's not education for me making decisions when you get older because when you get older, every decision you make, it can have great effects or devastating effects. It can you know, one person can make a decision to go meet a guy and next minute she's, you know, cheat a cook and a life. You make a decision could actually open a door to abundance. Every decision is leading you somewhere at the small ones add up to big things, and even one tiny decision can just make something just turn a corner to struggle. things. So I'm going to talk about decision making.

And I scoured the internet looking for posts on ideas on decision making. And there's a lot of generic ones. But I came across Bob Proctor. And I thought this guy has really studied laws of attraction and attraction and he admits to it. He says, I just I read the book from Napoleon Hill how to Think and Grow Rich, and he's scared that he would have any back in back when he was a kid. So he's really looked at it and when you listen to him speak, which is a link to the video of one of him speaking about decision making, you'll see that this guy goes beyond he doesn't give the generic stuff that's out there about how to make decisions.

I love his mindset, his mindset, he says this, if you're going to buy something or do something, he said, then you decide in your mind and then You pay for it later, or you work out what to do, what comes after it, how to negotiate the payment, and how to attend something, whatever it is, you make a decision. And it's already decided the How can come after he said, or he said some people don't make the decision, and they make excuses of why they can't do it. So the decision is never made. And he says, that's just that's how failure begins. Because he says this, and I love it. He says that money doesn't come into it.

He said that he makes a decision. And then everything else will follow that the universe will provide because the energy of our decision says, I want that I want to do that the energy then brings in the ways for something to create other ways for you to attend or ways for that to be what you want. He says it right here and I'll read it to you He said that is the cardinal principle of decision making decide right where you are with whatever you've got. This is precisely why most people never master this important aspect in life, they permit their resources to dictate if they if and when a decision will or can be made. And I think I have spent my life this this way as because I am what happens is you start making smaller decisions that then lead into bigger decisions. If you say yes, I'll do that.

And then you you do it and in the universe provides a way or you just have a will and you do it. Then the things get bigger and bigger. You you decide to, to go overseas, you decide to buy your house you decide to do or, you know, a new career or whatever, big decisions, then they keep getting bigger and bigger. So you create bigger things, and then I've made big risks. You know, my risks get bigger and bigger. The main bit yet, the more I'm work this way, the more I trust that the universe provides me.

Napoleon Hill says successful people make decisions quickly and firmly and successful people make decisions slowly and they change them often. These are the people that I loved and I noticed they sign up to frenzy killing, they'll go, No, I just knew it was right now and I had to do it. And I'm going, Well, you you're like, follow the gut your gut instincts and they do it and they progress so well. They make amazing changes in the course and get amazing tools. What else do we got here? I this is what Bob Proctor says.

I explained it to the I explained to two of these people that I never let money into my mind when I'm deciding whether I will or will not do something, whether I can afford it or not, is never consideration. Whether I want to or not, is the only consideration. So he says He says, I decided to I want to do it and money doesn't come into it. Now, as he says, he actually says my people might think that I'm crazy saying that. However, what I'm reading into that because of the way he's been operating and saying I make a decision and the money is not a consideration that will come after he says to me, he has practice the universe replying and supplying exactly what he needs he he has a belief system that that is what happens so therefore it happens. So that's going to take you a while to cultivate that you're going to have the character you might go on to decide to do that and then the money will follow.

But it bid start with small things, or I'm going to do that and the wait for me to do that will fall whatever you need to do to progress yourself to being more successful. But I amazing mindset. I am beyond like amazed at the sky. Yes. And he says you are the total sum of your thoughts. So cultivating a new belief system and a new way of thinking will create your new reality.

He thinks that and that is his reality. Like, I'm just I loved it when he said that I'm thinking, because who teaches you to think that way? Nobody, in fact, a lot of people telling me is crazy. But there are those people that go No, no, when I decide something, the universe supplies and a lot of people will say, like, when they've done my course they go, I just decided and then money came, I got this gift or something like that. So that's going to be a way of your new thinking to go, I am going to decide. I'm gonna make decisions on how a successful abundant person would make a decision.

And winning is a decision you've got to be made way more precise that in your decisions and way more aware that every time you make a decision You are defining yourself. And so this advanced decision making so so he says, because this is what Bob practices, we make advanced bookings when we fly somewhere This is quite common, we make advanced reservations to eliminate any confusion or problems when the time arrives for the journey. We do the same for car and all this kind of thing. And, and he just says he gives an example let's say there's, you know, somebody that's fasting or something, and then they say, Oh, you know, do you want this food? And they don't think about do they want it because it's already pre determined that they're not going to eat food during that time. It's their remedy and so forth.

And you you make a yes, you make a commitment, that of how you're going to think or how you're going to act. So he says this exact same concept works with a person when they're on a diet to release weight. They've already got it, they've already made their decisions. I made a decision A long time ago that I would not participate in any discussions of why something cannot be done. You have no idea how happy I am that I met Paul Graham and I knew about him and I've read stuff, but I didn't realize how profound this guy was. And he's my type of guy.

He's, he's the one he's like, it was similar to Joe dispenza. They want to go to extraordinary. They don't want to be the same. They want to be these creators. They're entrepreneurs. their, their manifest is they they pull in the they they get the universe working for them.

Adorable. Okay, so you are going to can read through the PDF with this amazing stuff, but just be mindful that every decision you're making is either going to add to your abundance or not. So you can say, well, is this this decision that I'm making right now? Is this going to help me achieve my goals? Is this going to lead me in that direction? That's how you can ask you know, talk to yourself because making decisions is really important for you to learn.

Because, you know, one wrong decision, you know, it can be devastating. As I mentioned, there is an exercise in this one that I want you to do is to go over all your bad decisions. So you need to learn from your decisions. When you make a decision out of fear. It's a bad decision, I can just tell you that. You're I mean, I've done this plenty of times in the past, I've noticed that when I made a decision that was out of fear, it led to the wrong outcome.

And where as I make a decision being empowered, it is the right outcome. That means that even though you might have something going on as well, you've got to pull yourself back and makes and get out of the fear and just say, what would an empowered persons do in the situation? How would they think fear will lead to bad decisions? So this is what we've got for us. Exercise today you write down your bad decisions that you made, then you'd say, Well, if I could choose again, I would do this. And then you write down the lesson that you learned in all of those things.

Then you can share with your abundance buddy a really important decision that that was bad and what you're doing again and what you've learned so that you don't repeat your bad decisions. You don't stay stuck in having this cycle of making these decisions that lead you down the wrong way that sabotage your life. Okay, well, I'm going to leave you with that those thoughts and those thoughts that in any given moment, you're making a decision, you're making a decision to actually watch this video, you made a decision to participate in this abundance challenge. You made a decision to read a book to watch something on TV to think of a certain have a certain thought in your head to focus on something to eat something to exercise non exercise to, you know, appreciate something every single moment you are making decisions and I want you to wake up to yourself going, I've just made a decision.

I've just done something and make sure you are proactive in deciding. making choices that lead you to an abundant free life, you've got to start making decisions have a successful abundant person would make. And you read about bit more about how Bob Proctor explains it in that in the PDF and train yourself to be better at making decisions and we lead more into that tomorrow. So we haven't finished with decision making because it is super important. Okay, so have fun with that exercise. Make a great decision to look at that exercise and decide to be a better decider, okay.

Take care.