In this video, we're going to talk about how to deal with mistakes and failure, how confident people are able to reframe different mistakes, different failures, and how they're able to look at their successes. So let's go right ahead and jump into this here. So you as an individual that is becoming more confident, that is learning how to become more resourceful. You need to understand that you must be confident about your mistakes, because your mistakes are what are going to allow you to learn and become better and to know exactly what not to do next time, right. It's simply a way that we're learning. And after each success that you experience, give yourself kudos and congratulations, because it's important for you to acknowledge and to build up those successes because then you can use those as resources down the road.

Whenever you're experiencing any kind of failure. You're going through different mistakes because you're always constantly going to be you know, experiencing things Some type of failure or some type of mistake, because you're trying to grow and expand, right, and you can't get out of your comfort zone and grow and expand, right? If you're not experiencing failures, if you're not experiencing mistakes, because that's how you're going to learn. So, here's essentially how confident people think about their mistakes. So if you make a mistake, remember, it's simply a function of what you did, and not a part of who you are really, really important to remember. Never attaching mistakes, failures to you as who you are as a person and ask yourself what you learn from this mistake.

What will you do differently next time that you've learned from that mistake, and then be able to adjust your behavior based on what you've learned. This is really, really important here. This is a big thing that, you know, got me almost to quit my entrepreneurship journey, a while back where I was experiencing a lot of failure. A lot of mistakes that I was doing in I was almost kind of done With that, and I was like, Man, you know, there's got to be a better way here. And I learned these different techniques that I'm going to share with you, I learned how to really take control of my mind and look at failure mistakes, all these different things as just feedback data, right information to let me know that I'm in, you know, the wrong area, I'm doing the wrong thing so that I can do less of that and do more of what is working for me and can work for me, right?

So it's all about just collecting data and feedback and adjusting the behavior based on what you've learned. And so here's how confident people think about their successes. They take success and they experience it and make it part of who they are. They realize that they experienced this success because they identify themselves as a successful person. They congratulate themselves and they celebrate their success. And they take time to analyze and ask themselves Okay, what can I do better next time, I understand that I took x action, and I didn't get my desired result.

So let's analyze this. And let's go for it again. And then let's change our behavior so we can do better next time. So really, really important here to understand that dealing with mistakes. And failure is just really about how you're actually framing it and reframing it to yourself. Because these are all part of the process.

Mistakes and failure are part of the game of life in general, right. So understanding that and being able to look at your mistakes and your successes in these types of ways. Your confidence is significantly going to improve and you're going to be better off as a person, an individual that's striving and reaching towards your goals. So that's going to be here for this video, and we'll see you on the next one.