So many people who are quite overcome by anger or bitterness as a result of their breakup have no idea how their attitude impacts their loved ones. So I've heard countless stories of brothers and sisters and mothers and fathers of those experiencing a divorce or breakup, who are just utterly exasperated. Because they just don't know how to support their loved one through this bad breakup. They're so tired of hearing it in with complaints and so desperate for this person to speak out, but they're not sure how to address the topic for fear of reproach every family occasion can get plagued by the tales of the breakup the divorce Whoa, the complaints as a family has to suffer the domination of this loved ones divorce. So you got to kind of look for yourself. Have you been kind of dominating conversations with talk of your breakup?

Have you been rewinding the tape and playing it again, with all the people in your life Do you notice that people are starting to pull back from you if you're courageous enough to To recognize that you might actually be burdening and dominating your family, then you need to take hold of the situation. So that is an important reason to not fall into the trap of false healing.